December 3, 2024 • 41 mins
Let's escape December's darkness with a mental vacation to some exotic travel locales. Tulum! Bali! Lisbon! Millions of people visit these popular tourist destinations, but why? Is it for personal growth and discovery, or are we just chasing social rewards by notching another iconic photo on our Instagram page? Maybe it's both!
The idea that "social media has ruined travel" gets brought up a lot by grumbly Internet curmudgeons, but is it true? Bridget took a look at what social science has to say about it and discussed what she found with Producer Mike.
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Speaker 1 (00:04):
There Are No Girls on the Internet, as a production
of iHeartRadio and Unbossed Creative. I'm bridge Ton and this
is there are No Girls.
Speaker 2 (00:14):
On the Internet.
Speaker 1 (00:18):
So Mike, as I know, you know and some of
the listeners by now know if you listen to the
last few episodes, I have had kind of a rough
few months, and during that time I have basically stopped
using social media. I just didn't really have a ton
to update anybody on other than you know, another day
in the hospital with my dad. And honestly, it was
getting to the point where scrolling social media would make
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me feel bad because when I did check in with
what folks were doing online, I was then confronted with
all of the ways that everybody around me continued to
live their lives while mine had essentially stopped. So during
that time when I was off social media, when I
took the occasional trip or did the occasional traveling, I
was really out of the habit of posting online at all.
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So I didn't and I realized that with everything going on,
not posting about my traveling and my trips actually made
me feel weirdly more connected to those experiences. At one
point when my dad was in the hospital. I found
this campsite near his hospital. Fun fact, it's the only
legal campsite in Richmond, Virginia, and so I was able
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to go to the hospital and do hospital things with
my dad during the day and then for the evening
retire to this campsite and sort of really get that
sort of nature recharge in the evenings I was looking for,
like by a campfire. It was probably one of the nicest, coolest,
most unique camp sites I've ever been to. But because
I wasn't on social media, I wasn't posting about it,
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and it weirdly felt kind of good to not be
posting about it, right, I got to have this experience
truly be focused around being something that you know, spiritually
nourished me and filled my cup personally, as opposed to
really focusing on how do I need to present this
to the outside world. How can I validate that this
experience is as cool as it feels to be me
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experiencing it to others via social media? Does that make sense?
Speaker 3 (02:10):
It does make sense. It makes a lot of sense
to me. You know, a guy that has maybe a
couple dozen followers across like all of my social media accounts. Yeah,
it makes total sense to be really focused on your
own perception of things and not focused on trying to
present it to others. You know, maybe not the best
strategy for explosive podcast growth, but in terms of personal satisfaction,
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it feels pretty good.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
I was going to say, they say the best relationships
and I think this also goes for podcast hosts and
podcast producer are one where one person is very online
and then the other person is like, never online, It's
no idea what's happening online. Maybe that's what we have
going on here.
Speaker 3 (02:50):
Yeah, that sounds a bit like our dynamic here. I'm
happy to play my role of not knowing what the
hell is going on and counting on you to tell
me all about it.
Speaker 1 (03:00):
As you know, I'm still sort of reintegrating back into
my life, back into the world, which I gotta say
has been challenging, given how depressing a lot of the
news is these days, and how depressing the world seems
these days. I feel like I got a little bit
of a late start to all that, Like I was
in my own depressing world, and then when I re
entered the rest of you all, I was like, oh,
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stuff is bleak. Oh, like, oh, everybody else is also
really said okay, cool, cool, cool, getting caught up, getting
caught up?
Speaker 3 (03:29):
Yeah, you thought your dad dying was bad? Did you
know about politics?
Speaker 1 (03:35):
Truly? I in some ways I was like put lucky
to be kind of spared from that, Like election night,
I barely tuned into what was going on. I'm going
to be sure if I should say this, As far
as I know, my dad went to his heavenly home
thinking that they were still tallying the votes and that
we still didn't know the winner. So I really we've
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all taken a little bit of a intentional break from
what's going on in the new cycle, and so I
only want today's episode to sort of be a break
from the new cycle, as I'm sort of getting caught
up on everything and kind of like travel itself. It'll
be a little bit of escape is but a chance
to really explore who we are and how we show
up in the world without the crushing pressure of dealing
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with all the disasters waiting for us back home, Which
brings me to my central question that I want to
talk about today. Similarly to how I didn't really share
the details to my very cool, top secret camping spot
does social media ruin and take the fun out of travel. So,
right off the bat, y'all know that we have kind
of a love hate thing going on with social media
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here at Tangoty. I am not out to demonize social
media and say like, oh, it's those damn phones ruining everything,
because I think that when we outright demonize technology, it
really becomes way too black or white, and then we're
not able to come up with reasonable frameworks for its
use and for its place in society.
Speaker 3 (04:55):
Yeah, that makes a lot of sense, And as we've
said a lot of times on this show, there's a
lot of positive things that we get from social media
in the Internet. So yeah, trying to flatten things down
into simple black and white doesn't really do anybody any good.
But isn't it fun to just focus on one negative
thing and just like really hate on it for a
little while.
Speaker 1 (05:13):
You know, it's my absolute favorite. But I mean, I
will say I would never have been able to do
the amount of meaningful solo travel as a black woman
on my own in many places if not for social media.
But it is for me often fund to just dig
into the research and what people are saying about the
negative impacts that social media and technology do have on travel,
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so pretty high level. There are places that the entire
Internet swears up and down have been completely ruined by
social media, specifically like influencer types. I think I did
a little bit of very unscientific research, and by that
I mean I searched on Reddit, and those apparently a
bunch of popular touruss deessinations that travelers say are just done.
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Cross them out. They've been ruined, their cook it's over.
Do you want to know some of those destinations?
Speaker 3 (06:01):
Yeah, I mean I feel like I probably have a sense.
But what did Reddit have to say?
Speaker 1 (06:06):
So Portugal, which You're welcome everybody, Mike, You and I
spent about a month in Portugal, I guess ruining it
for everybody.
Speaker 3 (06:14):
Yeah, I guess we caught the tail end because I
thought it was awesome. But there were a lot of
us there, us non Portuguese.
Speaker 1 (06:20):
Oh, if Portugal would have me permanently, I would gladly go.
I'm sure me and like a million other Americans. I'm
sure saying that right now. Bali, have you ever been there?
Speaker 3 (06:30):
No, I've never been to Bali. I've never been to
that part of the world. I would love to go,
but I guess maybe I shouldn't, but I still want to.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
According to Reddit, you maybe missed the boat on that one.
I spent about a month in Australia and a lot
of Australian's vacation to Bali, because it's not that intense
of a flay, like it will be a very intense
flight for me coming from the East coast of the
United States, and so I sort of had a kind
of a fascination with it kind of early on from
that trip. But I've never gone. And if you ask Reddit,
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it's too late. Don't go to Loom, Mexico. Have you
ever been there? No?
Speaker 3 (07:01):
I haven't. And that's definitely a place that I'm interested in.
A lot of people I know have like gone and
had really positive experiences. But I do have a lot
of hesitation because it just seems so overrun with tourists,
and not just tourists, but like a specific type of
like all inclusive ayahuasca seeking, like new age tourists to
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like eat prey, drink margarita. I don't know, it's like
it seems kind of fun but also a little like commercial.
It seems quite commercial. In twenty twenty four.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
So we've talked about this off mic, but I'm you
know how I was talking about how I'm not doing
Christmas this year. I'm just skipping Christmas, and so I
was like, oh, if I don't do Christmas, maybe I'll
go to like a yoga or like retreat or something.
And so just doing the most preliminary of research. There
are so many of them in Tuloom, and I could say, like,
all of them look beautiful. It's like these really picturesque,
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instagrammable places, but I cannot not see that and wonder, like,
what exactly is the impact that a bunch of non
Mexican people coming to to Loom to do a mindfulness
retreat or a yoga retreat or whatever. I cannot see
these beautifully instagrammable pictures and not wonder what is the
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impact on the locals, Like what is the ecological impact?
As beautiful as this stuff all looks, It's just very
difficult for me to not see this as a kind
of like consumption question.
Speaker 3 (08:31):
I think is a particularly difficult question because Tuloom is
a great example of a place that I think is
marketed as like an ecological paradise of pristine beaches and
beautiful jungle and an easy place to just like hang
out on the beach and relax and decompress. But meanwhile,
going there and enjoying those things is putting a lot
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of environmental pressure on the very beaches and jungles that
that people want to see, and all that relaxation and
fun is maybe contributing to a lot of economic inequality
and strife. So there's no free lunch.
Speaker 2 (09:12):
No.
Speaker 1 (09:13):
I feel the exact same way, and part of me
thinks it's kind of funny because taking a step back,
the threads I was looking at on Reddit with people
complaining about these different popular tourist destinations presumably are written
by Taurus themselves who are visiting there and then cast
whatever blame they have outward towards other people, saying that
they're the problem. Like I'm trying to visit this place
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for vacation and all these tourists keep proving it for me.
Speaker 3 (09:36):
I love going to a place and complaining about the
tourists me too, And I have to.
Speaker 1 (09:42):
Say, I mean, it wouldn't be an episode of There
No Girls on the Internet if we didn't ask what
is the role of misogyny here? Because all of these
threads on redditor people complaining specifically about influencers, and part
of you wonders, are these actual influencers, like people who
are creating content or is this just sort of a
veiled way of hating on women because women are associated
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with things like travel, blogging and influencing and contact creating,
and so it's just a way of hating on things
that people associate with women. I always want to ask that,
because I do think there has to be some thread
of massogity and woman hating going on here with the
vitriol that people talk about influencers or perceived influencers going
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to some of these places. I'm not saying that influencers
that their behavior is above reproach, like if you are
pushing people over to get your perfect sealthier like holding
up traffic, obviously, but part of me wonders, are these
actual influencers or are they just like young women traveling
that people think are annoying, so they're just hating on
them and saying, oh, it's because I hate influencers, they're
ruining travel.
Speaker 3 (10:45):
Yeah, that's a great question. Is there any signs about this, bridget.
Speaker 1 (10:50):
Well, there is actually a ton of research out there
about how social media impacts travel behavior. Now, some of
it is pretty benign and some of it is really
not so benign. So according to the research, social media
absolutely does impact where we travel. In a paper called
Social Return and Intent to Travel published in Tourism Management,
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they looked at the concept of what they call social return,
and that is the amount of positive social feedback that
someone's social media posts about travel will generate. They looked
at folks' intentions to visit Cuba, a place that I've
traveled and absolutely loved. They picked Cuba because I guess
it seemed like kind of an unusual tourism destination, they write.
Cuba is considered a novel tourism destination for US travelers,
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as visitation is still restricted for most US citizens, despite
recently restored diplomatic relationships between the US and Cuba. It
was chosen as a destination of interest in the study
as the inconspicuous consumption of novel tourism destinations is likely
to elicit greater social return or status than the consumption
of a mainstream tourism destination.
Speaker 3 (11:53):
That makes some sense, you know, like rarity is something
that people look for if if everybody's going to one place.
It's not as cool to go there as compared to
like someplace where nobody else is going.
Speaker 1 (12:06):
Yeah, I'm trying to remember why I went to Cuba.
I went alone. I went kind of on a whim.
I think if I don't know, it's been so long
now if I remember correctly, I was just looking at
places where you could get an easy flight, and it
just happened to be someplace that I was like, Oh,
this flight is like a deal and it's not too
far away. I could do this. I had one of
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my biggest travel blunders of my entire life going to Havana, Cuba.
Have I told you this?
Speaker 3 (12:35):
You did? And it was because of that terrible bank
that you use. You should I'm always telling you that
you should use a good bank like Chase.
Speaker 1 (12:44):
That's right, Well, we do use Chase for our business,
our shared like business accounts. So shout out to Chase
for my personal banking needs. I am not lucky enough
to bank with Chase for my personal needs. It's a
whole long story. So Chase is not responsible for what
happened to me in Cuba, which is that I called
my bank my non Chase personal bank, and I said, Hey,
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I'm traveling to Cuba. What do I need to know
when I get there? And the banker said, you'll be fine.
Your bank card will work like normal. You could pick
out cash like normal. It's basically like banking anywhere else
in the United States. I said, cool, that my dumb
ass gets on the plane, I don't take out any cash.
I land in Cuba, I'm the first things, first time
to go to the ATM. The ATM said, I don't
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think so. You can't use an American bankcard in a
Cuban ATM. It turns out there had been some diplomatic
change like that week, and so the information I was
getting from my personal bank that was not Chase was
correct when they told it to me, but I guess
became incorrect like days later. So I had to spend
the entirety of a week long trip in Havana, Cuba,
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with like twenty dollars cash to my name and no
other way to use money or spend money or really
make money. But you know what, thanks to the good
people of Cuba, it actually all worked out fine. It
actually was not that it actually ended up being fine,
and I remember it fondly as one of my best
trips solo.
Speaker 3 (14:10):
That must have been pretty challenging to get around on
twenty dollars.
Speaker 1 (14:15):
You know what, I made it work.
Speaker 3 (14:17):
Good thing. You're so charming.
Speaker 1 (14:18):
Yeah, that was really the saving grace. So back to
this study. Basically, they looked at people's intention to go
to Cuba and they graded it along what they called
the social return scale, which is basically how much love
and interest online traveling to Cuba might get on social media.
They found that the social return scale also had a
positive and significant relationship with the intention to visit Cuba.
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These results suggest that social return is a salient symbolic
factor in destination selection process. So basically, the research suggests
that we're picking where we travel based on this idea
of social return how much will people ooh and out
over it on social media. The researcher is right in
recognition that the traveler is keenly aware of the social
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value of their travel, and that not all travel experiences
are evaluated equally. There is the opportunity for varying travel
experiences to generate different levels of social return. In the
age of widespread social media use, particularly in the context
of travel, social return can be conceptualized as the amount
of positive social feedback that one's social media posts will generate.
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The general ideas that the more well received a social
media post, the more social media return the post will
generate through increased likes, comments, and sharing. This in turn
leads to an enhanced social status of the poster among
their social group. In essence, social media has provided a
medium for pure groups to manacure their social images to
demonstrate the cultural capital needed to effectively climb the social ladder.
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So basically, we're all just traveling to like look cool
on Instagram to impress our friends, not necessarily because that's
where we want to go.
Speaker 3 (15:53):
That makes sense, you know. I think they're doing the
thing that social scientists love to do, which is taking
a pretty common sense idea and putting a label on
it social return. But it is useful to think about
it that way, and it prompts you to think about
what other types of motivation somebody might have for traveling.
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You know, either to learn more about a place, learn
more about history, learn about connections to where your family
might be from. You know, social return is a big
part of it. And it sounds like this research is
suggesting that social return is increasingly a big part of it.
Speaker 1 (16:30):
Well, on that list of reasons that one might travel,
where do you put as a way to express one's
own vanity and narcissism, because that is another reason why
people travel thanks to the rise of social media. Basically,
this research found that instead of being like a meaningful
thing that you might do for the sake of doing it,
travel can be just another commodity to craft one's digital
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identity right. This is especially important as narcissism becomes more
normalized and the posting of travel experiences on social media
becomes more prominent primary motivation for travel. These self centered
motivations being related to the current techno meritocratic system that
we have entered, where once value is partly derived from
the image they procure through digital platforms. This focus on
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social return is similar to other measures of the symbolic
value of travel consumption, such as self concept or self congruity. However,
with social return, the attention is on the anticipative image
enhancement through posting about travel experiences on social media sites.
So as like nefarious as that sounds, I have to say,
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I'm one hundred percent guilty of it. By the way,
you know, if you're going through a bad breakup and
you want to project that you are out here living
your best and most glamorous life. What better way to
do that than go on a like luxurious, far flung
vacation and post about how much fun you're having on Instagram.
Speaker 2 (17:55):
Right.
Speaker 1 (17:56):
So, yes, I have seen the social return travel dynamic
play out, and I have been guilty of it myself.
Speaker 3 (18:02):
Where would you say is the top place that you
went because you were seeking that social return and did
you get the social dividends you were looking for?
Speaker 1 (18:11):
Ooh, this is a good question. Also, not a place
that I've actually gone for social return, but a trip
I've sort of been planning in my mind for a
very long time that is like partially based in social return.
It's going to Washington State, where they filmed the show
Twin Peaks or the movie Twin Peaks as well. I
think I would get a kick out of being there
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because I like any kind of pretty outdoor, sort of
like mountainous place. But I'm a big David Lynch fan,
and I am in all kinds of like online communities
talking about David Lynch, and so the idea of being like, oh,
I craft did the perfect Twin Peaks, I Tinerary, and
I went to all the spots where they filmed. I
went to the diner, I went here. That's like fully
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a social return, planned vacation in my mind.
Speaker 3 (18:57):
I love that because I mean, I also love Twin Peaks,
but I feel like Twin Peaks is the perfect piece
of media example for this because it's like quirky and
weird and universally loved.
Speaker 1 (19:11):
It's like, oh, y'all, I'm so quirky and like avant garde,
this piece of media that literally is critically acclaimed by everyone.
It's it's important to me. Did you guys know this
is an expression of my personal identity.
Speaker 3 (19:26):
Yeah, I'm one of the few people who can appreciate
this hit television series that was like a runaway success
on network TV.
Speaker 1 (19:35):
This is such a non sequorter, and I'm so sorry listeners.
I was watching Love Island and there was a couple
on there who the guy was like, Oh, I'm so nerdy.
I'm so into these like nerdy things like Marvel movies.
And then the woman is like, oh my god, Marvel movies.
That's so weird. I love them too. I'm screaming at
my TV like They are literally the most popular films
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on planet Earth. They are like no our box office smashes.
They're like the only movie they make. Y'all, aren't like
quirky and special that you have this this incredibly popular
thing in common.
Speaker 3 (20:09):
Yeah, I feel that it's like a really good analogy
for what we're talking about here. You don't want to
go on a trip to a place that's like too
basic or too common. You know, it's like, what's the
point nobody's even gonna be impressed.
Speaker 1 (20:23):
Well, so this is this is anecdotal, so I don't
have any research about this, but I've actually almost noticed
this like negative social return thing happening. I don't know
if that's what you're referring to, where a travel destination
is deemed to be too basic, and then I'll see
people in like online travel communities turning up their nose
at it a little bit, saying I'm like, oh, you
went to Turks and Caicos. Everybody goes there. That's not exciting,
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that's not cool. Like call me when you go someplace
really far along you have you seen this?
Speaker 3 (20:49):
Oh? Definitely, I feel that happens all the time. I
feel like Tuloom is kind of a good example of that,
because I feel it's often a little unfair to the place.
It's like, Yeah, you've created a really cool scene or
place or experience that a lot of people want to
come to, and now we're gonna hate on it because
you've been too successful.
Speaker 1 (21:10):
Yeah, I mean, and even I feel like taking a
step back. Any conversation about travel kind of has that undercurrent,
because we're talking about these places that don't exist for
us to explore us tourists, right. They're they're the They're
these incredibly dynamic, culturally rich places with with like a
rich history and a rich people like. The idea of
experiencing them only through this very narrow focus of is
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it a good is it a good place for me
to come and hang out for a week is so narrow.
So the whole conversation feels a little bit icky of
defining some of these incredibly dynamic places through this very
narrow lens of are they good tourist destinations or not.
Speaker 2 (21:51):
Let's take a quick break. Enterer back, Okay, so I.
Speaker 1 (22:05):
Have to shout out a researcher whose work I stumbled
upon while I was put in together my thoughts for
this episode. Doctor Lauren A. Siegel, PhD. Lauren got her
PhD from University of Surrey and the UK with a
focus on behavioral performance and visitor impacts to destinations considered instagrammable.
Doctor Siegel published a paper with colleagues Ice Tessiata and
Caroline Scarles called cyber Physical Traveler Performances and Instagram Travel
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Photography as Ideal Impression Management that basically says that thanks
to the rise of platforms like Instagram, when we travel,
we are all about getting that perfect picture for social
media and less about sort of where we're at or
why we're going there, and that this can really be
connected back to the rise of Instagram. Stay right, a
refreshed code of choreographed movements as photographic practices has emerged
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that did not exist before the popularization of Instagram. Less
than two percent of the photos analyzed solely feature the
la escape, reinforcing the shift to self presentation strategies as
the foremost importance.
Speaker 3 (23:06):
That's so interesting. I went and read that study, and
you know, the photos that they analyzed were the top
ones for each location recommended by the algorithm. So I
have to wonder, like how much of that is driven
by people wanting social return for themselves, making themselves the
subject of the photo, and how much was driven by
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the algorithms rewarding photos that just center people. And so
I thought about that a little bit, and I was like, well, wait,
maybe those are one and the same thing, Like which
came first, the narcissism or the algorithm?
Speaker 1 (23:37):
Oh my god, I love that question, and truly like,
I mean this could be. I want to do a
whole series on this. But how much of what we
like and what we do is algorithms and how much
of it is actually us? I feel like in twenty
twenty four, the things are all collapsed and what I
like is just what my algorithm surfaces up to me
and vice versa. They're one and the same, and like,
trying to parse them at this point is impossis.
Speaker 3 (24:00):
I totally agree. I think, yeah, any attempt to say
that one is purely causally driving the other is just
missing the point.
Speaker 1 (24:08):
So doctor Siegel's work basically says that we're not really
trying to capture memories and we travel anymore. All we're
doing is what she calls self presentation. She writes there's
been a shift in personal photography such that photos are
used to construct one's idealized identity, which is contrary to
pass photographic practices as a form of memory documentation. As such,
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users will look to ideals perpetuated by socio cultural norms
to internally assess the level of manipulation that their travel
images require. And this is apparently especially true on Instagram.
As Instagram is the most visual social networking site, it
lends itself to self presentation practices more so than other platforms.
Photographs are much more effective than tax for impression management,
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as the myth of photographic truth lends credibility that is
often missing in texts. Instagram consists primarily of photographs and
therefore intensifies the importance of visual self presentation. However, despite
the potential for instant image publication, most Instagram images are
not mere point and shoot style photos and require the
equivalent of a photo shoot carried out in tourist settings.
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So I could not read that bit and not think
of those fake tourist pictures, do you know what I'm
talking about? Those pictures where everybody goes to Turkey and
they have that same picture of like hot air balloons
behind them, right, Like, I cannot not think of these
basically faked tourist photos that have become almost like a
whole little industry. And I'm not hating on the people
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who run these industries because oftentimes their locals and like
people's fascination with getting this perfect shot means money for
them and money in their pocket, as it should, but
it's so interesting. A great example is the Gates of
Heaven Temple in Pali, which is this beautiful temple that
gets thousands of visitors each year, and you can take
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this iconic picture that looks like you're staying under the
temple on a body of water, and there's this mirror
image reflected, so it looks like, Wow, you're standing under
the temple right on this lake, and it's like a
mirror image that doubles what's being seen in this picture. However,
apparently there is not any water whatsoever at this temple,
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and what it is is like a guy holding a
mirror beneath you. And so the image that I think
of night like like, if you've ever seen an image
of a temple from Bali, this is this is probably
like what you're thinking of. That image is partially thaked
because there is no water there This leads to some
pretty unhappy reviews from people who saw this picture, traveled there,
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waited in line, and then did not see the like
expected lake or body of water. Here's one review from
trip Advisor. The title is Gate to Heaven A really
long queue. Do you like waiting in queues? Do you
enjoy waking up at three am? Or I love the
idea of trying to be creative with poses for a photo.
It's not technically real, per se. I got the perfect
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place for you. This temple is located quite a distance
from most people's hotels, so for me, I left the
hotel at three fifteen am to get there by five
fifteen am. After a shuttle ride and getting a number,
paying the feet of take a photo, and then walking
up a steep hill, I was finally at the Gate
of Heaven, but in actuality, it's the gate to a
very long queue. I got out there by seven am,
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despite being one of the first ones there at five
fifteen am. The employees here use a trick of the
camera to create the image that has a reflection. You
were given three or four poses to take the photo
of you at the gate. I felt it was kind
of corny and touristy. I guess if it's one's first
time in Bali, why not. But anyone who does it
more than once is crazy.
Speaker 2 (27:45):
Wow.
Speaker 3 (27:45):
I remember when like that story broke, you know, it
was like the story of how those images were this
temple was not what it seemed that mirrors were involved
in creating the sense of this great lake inside the temple,
when in fact it was just like guys holding mirrors.
Speaker 1 (28:07):
So you know how you were saying that it's like
classic social scientist behavior to identify a thing that everybody
can already see and sort of given a name, which,
by the way, you can say that because you are
a social scientist.
Speaker 3 (28:18):
Right, yeah, I say that with love. I mean people
are like, oh, it's just common sense. But it's important
to give things names because then we can, you know,
have a definition and we can all talk about it,
we can get sighted. It's important.
Speaker 1 (28:30):
So doctor Siegel calls that the whole temple thing a
micro destination, which is a specific place in a tourist
destination that really pops off on social media content, like
those blue domes in Santorini, Greece, like these places that
you would probably need like specific coordinates to recreate that
specific photo that has now kind of become iconic on
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social media.
Speaker 3 (28:53):
Yeah, I remember experiencing that same thing at Arches National Park.
We hiked up a mountain in the sun for like
three hours. It was not the hardest hike, but definitely
not an easy hike. It was really windy at the top,
really sunny and hot. And so after all that, we're
up at the top of this very windy, barren, arid
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mountain and unforgiving landscape, and what me and my friends
find up there a long queue of people waiting to
take photos in front of the historic arch. And I
definitely got in line, waited like thirty minutes to get
my photo. It was actually kind of a fun experience,
like laughing with the other people up there. But it
was definitely a micro destination like that one spot in
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this vast park in an even vaster desert.
Speaker 1 (29:42):
I was on that ship with you many a hat
blew off. The conditions up there were a lot, I
remember it very clearly. But we did take that photo.
So I'm not even saying this like I'm a like
we're above it. Like what I think it's interesting about
doctor Segel's work is that it pulls out these things
that we all do, and so I don't think any
I'm certainly not above this. I don't think anybody is
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above this. We took that the arch photo. We came
all that way, like we're not trying to take the photo.
And so in some ways, part of this is like, well,
do you blame anybody who like, this is your vacation.
You spent all this money, you want to get the
iconic photo, whether it's really a lake or a guy
holding a mirror or not.
Speaker 3 (30:19):
Yeah, absolutely, I got it. I'm proud of it. And
it was actually nice communal experience being up there with
all these other people who had hiked up there to
get it. And you know, standing in Q was not
terribly unpleasant because it was an incredibly beautiful spot. So
it's like, Okay, I just got to stand here and
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look around at all these beautiful mountains and rock formations
for a while and laugh it up with like this
family that's standing here in front of me and these
like weird guys who were standing behind me.
Speaker 1 (30:51):
Well, speaking of photos, doctor Siegel's research even gets into
the nitty gritty of the way the particular ways that
people pose for social media travel photos. So you know
the shot and you close your eyes and picture you know,
is that what I'm talking about? The shot of a
woman walking in motion with like a flowy dress behind
her in front of a beautiful backdrop, or like the
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photo of somebody sort of candidly not looking at the
camera with a pretty backdrop behind them.
Speaker 3 (31:18):
Hold on while I pull up like five hundred examples
of this on my phone right now.
Speaker 1 (31:23):
No, it turns out we are all just staging this
those pictures. We are all just staging all of those
poses all of the time. This is from doctor Siegel's research.
It's hilarious, but I feel very called out personally. Most
notable of these poses are the off camera gaze and
gesticulations of being in motion. Another prominent theme to emerge
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from a content analysis was a facial expression, where in
the subject's visual gaze was focused somewhere out of the
camera's view. Only thirty five point three percent of the
photos and the content analysis featured subjects looking directly at
or into the camera lens. The research also did on
site ethnographic observations in Bali, which were consistent with the
findings of the content analysis. Many of those observed taurus
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fix their gaze off camera while posing for photographs. Such
behavior indicates a clear motivation for the subject to appear
as if they were caught off guard or in the
midst of having an enjoyable experience, rather than staging a
curated photo. Photos in which the subject apparently lacks an
awareness that they're being photographed are known in popular media
as plannedids i e. Plan candids. Plandets can also be
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considered a reinvention of URI's concept of the romantic gaze,
with the purpose of conveying an idealize lifestyle and the
nonchalance of an intended and performed ignorance to the presence
of a camera and or documentation of the experience. Oh
oh me, I wasn't even aware a photo was being
taken because I'm too busy living in the moment.
Speaker 3 (32:54):
You feel a little called out.
Speaker 1 (32:56):
Oh that is my classic, Like, oh my, I'm not
even look, oh, a picture is being taken. I wasn't aware.
I was just engrossed in this book I'm reading in
this beautiful park.
Speaker 3 (33:12):
Yeah, you know, it's so funny because so this is
a little bit of a non sequitur, but it does connect.
I've been spending time on Blue Sky recently, which I've
really been enjoying. And my feed includes a lot of
natural landscapes, nature photography and space photography, but also there's
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just a lot of AI generated stuff that people are
like engagement farming there, and so there's this AI generated
images purporting to be photographs and being like, hey, this
is fake, this isn't real, Like you should at least
label it as AI generated. But talking about this now,
it really makes me think like, well, what is real? Right? Like,
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is is a plan died real? Like, yeah, it's a photograph,
but you know, maybe so what if people are posing
like there they really are there just gazing off into
the distance, thinking about you know, the butler or whatever.
Speaker 1 (34:14):
Yeah, it reminds me of this thing I saw on
I think, I think on possibly on Blue Sky where
it's a picture of a man with his son and
it's just like beautiful sky and background and somebody asks
how did you get that sky effect in the photo?
And he said it was just a regular sky, Like
what do you mean? It's not the fact, just what's
the way the sky looked at me? We're outside. I
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feel like every single time I talk about this on
the show, it sounds like I've just taken a massive
bong rip, but I swear I have not. When you
start breaking into like what is real, I mean you
know that line. Once you start writing, it all becomes fiction,
Like once it's on social media, it all becomes fake.
And so like the question of what is real, it's
almost like not the right question to be asking, because
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it's like Baudriard's concept of hyperreality, Like it's even what
you see on Instagram in some ways becomes even more
real than what would be real otherwise that like you
couldn't tell me that temple doesn't have a lake at it,
even though that lake is fake, because I've seen that
lake on Instagram so many times.
Speaker 3 (35:14):
Yes, that's a good point, and I guess you know
now that I think about it. At no point in
any of doctor Siegel's research does she use the word
reeal that I noticed. Right, she's just talking about the
different behaviors that people do, and she's also talking about
their motivations for doing it. Real isn't really even part
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of the analysis.
Speaker 1 (35:39):
Yeah, I don't think that's even what she's interested in
in in like grappling with and it almost kind of
seems like an afterthought of like, well, what is real?
Like what what does reel mean in this context? And
I know a lot of this stuff can be funny,
but it's also pretty serious. You know. The way that
social media intersects with travel can lead to things over tourism,
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which can be a problem if a place that doesn't
have the infrastructure to handle a certain level of tourism.
National Geographic notes that eighty percent of travelers visited just
ten percent of the world's destination. So like that can
have a really big impact, and as doctor Siegel puts it,
it can create a cycle that contributes to more self
indulgent travel. It could also wreak ecological damage and exacerbate
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income disparities. And so it's kind of like navel gayzy
and interesting to think about this intersection of social media
and travel behavior. But it also really has, you know,
talk about what's real what's not. It has very real
irl offline impacts for these destinations as well, and some
big tourist destinations are actually working to combat it. So BALI,
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which I know we've talked about quite a bit during
this episode, released new guidelines for visitors in June twenty
twenty three that includes rules about proper behavior and sacred temples,
rules about how you should behave on the island and
behave with locals, and rules around respecting the natural environment.
Tourists now need a license to rent motorbikes and may
not set foot on any mountain or volcano in Bali
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due to their sacred nature. Travelers also have to stay
and registered hotels and villas, which obviously will impact things
like Arabian bees, and Bali has introduced a Tourist Task
Force to enforce these restrictions through raids and investigations if necessary.
This is all from a piece for CNN dot Com
that doctor Siegal wrote. Doctor Siegel also points out that
other destinations have also taken similar steps. Places like Hawaii, Iceland,
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New Zealand, Costa Rica and others have all adopted pledgets
for visitors to abide by local laws and customs. And
there's also these big campaigns like Switzerland's No Drama campaign,
Finland's be More Like a Finn campaign, the Netherlands How
to Amsterdam campaign, which I think was all about like
British Party lads coming and probably like indulging too much
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in the t shops etc. And like creating a problem.
In Austria, they have the sea Vienna not hashtag Vienna campaign,
which really asks for folks to really have a more
mindful approach to their tourism when they're in Vienna. And
in a study called does social Media help or hurt
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Tourist Destinations? A qualitative case study, doctor Siegel actually looked
at the tourist board of Vienna with their kind of
anti hashtag marketing campaign urged that encouraging visitors to go
offline mult traveling in the city, and she found that
apparently it's been like pretty well received. To make you
went to Vienna, was it pre hashtag or post hashtag?
Speaker 3 (38:33):
Oh man, I was in Vienna pre iPhone, so it
was definitely pre hashtag. But I loved it. It was
just the coolest, most charming place. I won't get into
the whole thing of it, but what really struck me
about Vienna was that it was both like old and
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classical and beautiful, but also like a vibrant, exciting city
where like people lived and worked and loved and played
and all the things. I just had the best time there.
I was so impressed, And so I don't know what
hashtag Vienna is but the actual city that I got
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to experience back in those pre iPhone days no further
date specification provided was incredible. And so people if people
were going there pursuing hashtag Vienna, whatever that might have been,
I do have to wonder if they were missing out
on some of the more subtle beauty that was there
to be had well.
Speaker 1 (39:38):
So that's exactly what doctor siegeal found that the staff
of the tourist board in Vienna, who created this kind
of anti hashtag campaign, explained that all these tourists would
come to Vienna and that their image of Vienna was
this mis quote metropolis without stress, and yet the tourism
board felt that visitors to their city were increasingly just
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missing out on these very experiences because they were too
busy on their dang phones, as my mom would say.
So this seems like a pretty important observation relevant to
all these other Instagram driven behaviors that we've already talked
about that focus on getting this perfect picture for other
people and having that stand in the way of actually
being present and enjoying oneself. And that's exactly what I
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think that the Vienna Tourism board, it sounds like was
trying to combat and y'all. If there is one thing
I have learned over the last couple of months, it
is that life is too dang short to live it
for validation or people on your phone or other outside people.
You shouldn't be living it for you. So if you're
doing any travel over the holiday season, how to keep
that online?
Speaker 3 (40:40):
What a nice sentiment, Bridget.
Speaker 1 (40:42):
Thanks so much, Mike, and thanks for listening. I will
see all on the internet. Got a story about an
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Speaker 2 (00:14):
On the Internet.
Speaker 1 (00:18):
So Mike, as I know, you know and some of
the listeners by now know if you listen to the
last few episodes, I have had kind of a rough
few months, and during that time I have basically stopped
using social media. I just didn't really have a ton
to update anybody on other than you know, another day
in the hospital with my dad. And honestly, it was
getting to the point where scrolling social media would make
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me feel bad because when I did check in with
what folks were doing online, I was then confronted with
all of the ways that everybody around me continued to
live their lives while mine had essentially stopped. So during
that time when I was off social media, when I
took the occasional trip or did the occasional traveling, I
was really out of the habit of posting online at all.
(01:01):
So I didn't and I realized that with everything going on,
not posting about my traveling and my trips actually made
me feel weirdly more connected to those experiences. At one
point when my dad was in the hospital. I found
this campsite near his hospital. Fun fact, it's the only
legal campsite in Richmond, Virginia, and so I was able
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to go to the hospital and do hospital things with
my dad during the day and then for the evening
retire to this campsite and sort of really get that
sort of nature recharge in the evenings I was looking for,
like by a campfire. It was probably one of the nicest, coolest,
most unique camp sites I've ever been to. But because
I wasn't on social media, I wasn't posting about it,
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and it weirdly felt kind of good to not be
posting about it, right, I got to have this experience
truly be focused around being something that you know, spiritually
nourished me and filled my cup personally, as opposed to
really focusing on how do I need to present this
to the outside world. How can I validate that this
experience is as cool as it feels to be me
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experiencing it to others via social media? Does that make sense?
Speaker 3 (02:10):
It does make sense. It makes a lot of sense
to me. You know, a guy that has maybe a
couple dozen followers across like all of my social media accounts. Yeah,
it makes total sense to be really focused on your
own perception of things and not focused on trying to
present it to others. You know, maybe not the best
strategy for explosive podcast growth, but in terms of personal satisfaction,
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it feels pretty good.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
I was going to say, they say the best relationships
and I think this also goes for podcast hosts and
podcast producer are one where one person is very online
and then the other person is like, never online, It's
no idea what's happening online. Maybe that's what we have
going on here.
Speaker 3 (02:50):
Yeah, that sounds a bit like our dynamic here. I'm
happy to play my role of not knowing what the
hell is going on and counting on you to tell
me all about it.
Speaker 1 (03:00):
As you know, I'm still sort of reintegrating back into
my life, back into the world, which I gotta say
has been challenging, given how depressing a lot of the
news is these days, and how depressing the world seems
these days. I feel like I got a little bit
of a late start to all that, Like I was
in my own depressing world, and then when I re
entered the rest of you all, I was like, oh,
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stuff is bleak. Oh, like, oh, everybody else is also
really said okay, cool, cool, cool, getting caught up, getting
caught up?
Speaker 3 (03:29):
Yeah, you thought your dad dying was bad? Did you
know about politics?
Speaker 1 (03:35):
Truly? I in some ways I was like put lucky
to be kind of spared from that, Like election night,
I barely tuned into what was going on. I'm going
to be sure if I should say this, As far
as I know, my dad went to his heavenly home
thinking that they were still tallying the votes and that
we still didn't know the winner. So I really we've
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all taken a little bit of a intentional break from
what's going on in the new cycle, and so I
only want today's episode to sort of be a break
from the new cycle, as I'm sort of getting caught
up on everything and kind of like travel itself. It'll
be a little bit of escape is but a chance
to really explore who we are and how we show
up in the world without the crushing pressure of dealing
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with all the disasters waiting for us back home, Which
brings me to my central question that I want to
talk about today. Similarly to how I didn't really share
the details to my very cool, top secret camping spot
does social media ruin and take the fun out of travel. So,
right off the bat, y'all know that we have kind
of a love hate thing going on with social media
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here at Tangoty. I am not out to demonize social
media and say like, oh, it's those damn phones ruining everything,
because I think that when we outright demonize technology, it
really becomes way too black or white, and then we're
not able to come up with reasonable frameworks for its
use and for its place in society.
Speaker 3 (04:55):
Yeah, that makes a lot of sense, And as we've
said a lot of times on this show, there's a
lot of positive things that we get from social media
in the Internet. So yeah, trying to flatten things down
into simple black and white doesn't really do anybody any good.
But isn't it fun to just focus on one negative
thing and just like really hate on it for a
little while.
Speaker 1 (05:13):
You know, it's my absolute favorite. But I mean, I
will say I would never have been able to do
the amount of meaningful solo travel as a black woman
on my own in many places if not for social media.
But it is for me often fund to just dig
into the research and what people are saying about the
negative impacts that social media and technology do have on travel,
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so pretty high level. There are places that the entire
Internet swears up and down have been completely ruined by
social media, specifically like influencer types. I think I did
a little bit of very unscientific research, and by that
I mean I searched on Reddit, and those apparently a
bunch of popular touruss deessinations that travelers say are just done.
(05:55):
Cross them out. They've been ruined, their cook it's over.
Do you want to know some of those destinations?
Speaker 3 (06:01):
Yeah, I mean I feel like I probably have a sense.
But what did Reddit have to say?
Speaker 1 (06:06):
So Portugal, which You're welcome everybody, Mike, You and I
spent about a month in Portugal, I guess ruining it
for everybody.
Speaker 3 (06:14):
Yeah, I guess we caught the tail end because I
thought it was awesome. But there were a lot of
us there, us non Portuguese.
Speaker 1 (06:20):
Oh, if Portugal would have me permanently, I would gladly go.
I'm sure me and like a million other Americans. I'm
sure saying that right now. Bali, have you ever been there?
Speaker 3 (06:30):
No, I've never been to Bali. I've never been to
that part of the world. I would love to go,
but I guess maybe I shouldn't, but I still want to.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
According to Reddit, you maybe missed the boat on that one.
I spent about a month in Australia and a lot
of Australian's vacation to Bali, because it's not that intense
of a flay, like it will be a very intense
flight for me coming from the East coast of the
United States, and so I sort of had a kind
of a fascination with it kind of early on from
that trip. But I've never gone. And if you ask Reddit,
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it's too late. Don't go to Loom, Mexico. Have you
ever been there? No?
Speaker 3 (07:01):
I haven't. And that's definitely a place that I'm interested in.
A lot of people I know have like gone and
had really positive experiences. But I do have a lot
of hesitation because it just seems so overrun with tourists,
and not just tourists, but like a specific type of
like all inclusive ayahuasca seeking, like new age tourists to
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like eat prey, drink margarita. I don't know, it's like
it seems kind of fun but also a little like commercial.
It seems quite commercial. In twenty twenty four.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
So we've talked about this off mic, but I'm you
know how I was talking about how I'm not doing
Christmas this year. I'm just skipping Christmas, and so I
was like, oh, if I don't do Christmas, maybe I'll
go to like a yoga or like retreat or something.
And so just doing the most preliminary of research. There
are so many of them in Tuloom, and I could say, like,
all of them look beautiful. It's like these really picturesque,
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instagrammable places, but I cannot not see that and wonder, like,
what exactly is the impact that a bunch of non
Mexican people coming to to Loom to do a mindfulness
retreat or a yoga retreat or whatever. I cannot see
these beautifully instagrammable pictures and not wonder what is the
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impact on the locals, Like what is the ecological impact?
As beautiful as this stuff all looks, It's just very
difficult for me to not see this as a kind
of like consumption question.
Speaker 3 (08:31):
I think is a particularly difficult question because Tuloom is
a great example of a place that I think is
marketed as like an ecological paradise of pristine beaches and
beautiful jungle and an easy place to just like hang
out on the beach and relax and decompress. But meanwhile,
going there and enjoying those things is putting a lot
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of environmental pressure on the very beaches and jungles that
that people want to see, and all that relaxation and
fun is maybe contributing to a lot of economic inequality
and strife. So there's no free lunch.
Speaker 2 (09:12):
No.
Speaker 1 (09:13):
I feel the exact same way, and part of me
thinks it's kind of funny because taking a step back,
the threads I was looking at on Reddit with people
complaining about these different popular tourist destinations presumably are written
by Taurus themselves who are visiting there and then cast
whatever blame they have outward towards other people, saying that
they're the problem. Like I'm trying to visit this place
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for vacation and all these tourists keep proving it for me.
Speaker 3 (09:36):
I love going to a place and complaining about the
tourists me too, And I have to.
Speaker 1 (09:42):
Say, I mean, it wouldn't be an episode of There
No Girls on the Internet if we didn't ask what
is the role of misogyny here? Because all of these
threads on redditor people complaining specifically about influencers, and part
of you wonders, are these actual influencers, like people who
are creating content or is this just sort of a
veiled way of hating on women because women are associated
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with things like travel, blogging and influencing and contact creating,
and so it's just a way of hating on things
that people associate with women. I always want to ask that,
because I do think there has to be some thread
of massogity and woman hating going on here with the
vitriol that people talk about influencers or perceived influencers going
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to some of these places. I'm not saying that influencers
that their behavior is above reproach, like if you are
pushing people over to get your perfect sealthier like holding
up traffic, obviously, but part of me wonders, are these
actual influencers or are they just like young women traveling
that people think are annoying, so they're just hating on
them and saying, oh, it's because I hate influencers, they're
ruining travel.
Speaker 3 (10:45):
Yeah, that's a great question. Is there any signs about this, bridget.
Speaker 1 (10:50):
Well, there is actually a ton of research out there
about how social media impacts travel behavior. Now, some of
it is pretty benign and some of it is really
not so benign. So according to the research, social media
absolutely does impact where we travel. In a paper called
Social Return and Intent to Travel published in Tourism Management,
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they looked at the concept of what they call social return,
and that is the amount of positive social feedback that
someone's social media posts about travel will generate. They looked
at folks' intentions to visit Cuba, a place that I've
traveled and absolutely loved. They picked Cuba because I guess
it seemed like kind of an unusual tourism destination, they write.
Cuba is considered a novel tourism destination for US travelers,
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as visitation is still restricted for most US citizens, despite
recently restored diplomatic relationships between the US and Cuba. It
was chosen as a destination of interest in the study
as the inconspicuous consumption of novel tourism destinations is likely
to elicit greater social return or status than the consumption
of a mainstream tourism destination.
Speaker 3 (11:53):
That makes some sense, you know, like rarity is something
that people look for if if everybody's going to one place.
It's not as cool to go there as compared to
like someplace where nobody else is going.
Speaker 1 (12:06):
Yeah, I'm trying to remember why I went to Cuba.
I went alone. I went kind of on a whim.
I think if I don't know, it's been so long
now if I remember correctly, I was just looking at
places where you could get an easy flight, and it
just happened to be someplace that I was like, Oh,
this flight is like a deal and it's not too
far away. I could do this. I had one of
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my biggest travel blunders of my entire life going to Havana, Cuba.
Have I told you this?
Speaker 3 (12:35):
You did? And it was because of that terrible bank
that you use. You should I'm always telling you that
you should use a good bank like Chase.
Speaker 1 (12:44):
That's right, Well, we do use Chase for our business,
our shared like business accounts. So shout out to Chase
for my personal banking needs. I am not lucky enough
to bank with Chase for my personal needs. It's a
whole long story. So Chase is not responsible for what
happened to me in Cuba, which is that I called
my bank my non Chase personal bank, and I said, Hey,
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I'm traveling to Cuba. What do I need to know
when I get there? And the banker said, you'll be fine.
Your bank card will work like normal. You could pick
out cash like normal. It's basically like banking anywhere else
in the United States. I said, cool, that my dumb
ass gets on the plane, I don't take out any cash.
I land in Cuba, I'm the first things, first time
to go to the ATM. The ATM said, I don't
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think so. You can't use an American bankcard in a
Cuban ATM. It turns out there had been some diplomatic
change like that week, and so the information I was
getting from my personal bank that was not Chase was
correct when they told it to me, but I guess
became incorrect like days later. So I had to spend
the entirety of a week long trip in Havana, Cuba,
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with like twenty dollars cash to my name and no
other way to use money or spend money or really
make money. But you know what, thanks to the good
people of Cuba, it actually all worked out fine. It
actually was not that it actually ended up being fine,
and I remember it fondly as one of my best
trips solo.
Speaker 3 (14:10):
That must have been pretty challenging to get around on
twenty dollars.
Speaker 1 (14:15):
You know what, I made it work.
Speaker 3 (14:17):
Good thing. You're so charming.
Speaker 1 (14:18):
Yeah, that was really the saving grace. So back to
this study. Basically, they looked at people's intention to go
to Cuba and they graded it along what they called
the social return scale, which is basically how much love
and interest online traveling to Cuba might get on social media.
They found that the social return scale also had a
positive and significant relationship with the intention to visit Cuba.
(14:40):
These results suggest that social return is a salient symbolic
factor in destination selection process. So basically, the research suggests
that we're picking where we travel based on this idea
of social return how much will people ooh and out
over it on social media. The researcher is right in
recognition that the traveler is keenly aware of the social
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value of their travel, and that not all travel experiences
are evaluated equally. There is the opportunity for varying travel
experiences to generate different levels of social return. In the
age of widespread social media use, particularly in the context
of travel, social return can be conceptualized as the amount
of positive social feedback that one's social media posts will generate.
(15:21):
The general ideas that the more well received a social
media post, the more social media return the post will
generate through increased likes, comments, and sharing. This in turn
leads to an enhanced social status of the poster among
their social group. In essence, social media has provided a
medium for pure groups to manacure their social images to
demonstrate the cultural capital needed to effectively climb the social ladder.
(15:44):
So basically, we're all just traveling to like look cool
on Instagram to impress our friends, not necessarily because that's
where we want to go.
Speaker 3 (15:53):
That makes sense, you know. I think they're doing the
thing that social scientists love to do, which is taking
a pretty common sense idea and putting a label on
it social return. But it is useful to think about
it that way, and it prompts you to think about
what other types of motivation somebody might have for traveling.
(16:13):
You know, either to learn more about a place, learn
more about history, learn about connections to where your family
might be from. You know, social return is a big
part of it. And it sounds like this research is
suggesting that social return is increasingly a big part of it.
Speaker 1 (16:30):
Well, on that list of reasons that one might travel,
where do you put as a way to express one's
own vanity and narcissism, because that is another reason why
people travel thanks to the rise of social media. Basically,
this research found that instead of being like a meaningful
thing that you might do for the sake of doing it,
travel can be just another commodity to craft one's digital
(16:51):
identity right. This is especially important as narcissism becomes more
normalized and the posting of travel experiences on social media
becomes more prominent primary motivation for travel. These self centered
motivations being related to the current techno meritocratic system that
we have entered, where once value is partly derived from
the image they procure through digital platforms. This focus on
(17:13):
social return is similar to other measures of the symbolic
value of travel consumption, such as self concept or self congruity. However,
with social return, the attention is on the anticipative image
enhancement through posting about travel experiences on social media sites.
So as like nefarious as that sounds, I have to say,
(17:34):
I'm one hundred percent guilty of it. By the way,
you know, if you're going through a bad breakup and
you want to project that you are out here living
your best and most glamorous life. What better way to
do that than go on a like luxurious, far flung
vacation and post about how much fun you're having on Instagram.
Speaker 2 (17:55):
Right.
Speaker 1 (17:56):
So, yes, I have seen the social return travel dynamic
play out, and I have been guilty of it myself.
Speaker 3 (18:02):
Where would you say is the top place that you
went because you were seeking that social return and did
you get the social dividends you were looking for?
Speaker 1 (18:11):
Ooh, this is a good question. Also, not a place
that I've actually gone for social return, but a trip
I've sort of been planning in my mind for a
very long time that is like partially based in social return.
It's going to Washington State, where they filmed the show
Twin Peaks or the movie Twin Peaks as well. I
think I would get a kick out of being there
(18:32):
because I like any kind of pretty outdoor, sort of
like mountainous place. But I'm a big David Lynch fan,
and I am in all kinds of like online communities
talking about David Lynch, and so the idea of being like, oh,
I craft did the perfect Twin Peaks, I Tinerary, and
I went to all the spots where they filmed. I
went to the diner, I went here. That's like fully
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a social return, planned vacation in my mind.
Speaker 3 (18:57):
I love that because I mean, I also love Twin Peaks,
but I feel like Twin Peaks is the perfect piece
of media example for this because it's like quirky and
weird and universally loved.
Speaker 1 (19:11):
It's like, oh, y'all, I'm so quirky and like avant garde,
this piece of media that literally is critically acclaimed by everyone.
It's it's important to me. Did you guys know this
is an expression of my personal identity.
Speaker 3 (19:26):
Yeah, I'm one of the few people who can appreciate
this hit television series that was like a runaway success
on network TV.
Speaker 1 (19:35):
This is such a non sequorter, and I'm so sorry listeners.
I was watching Love Island and there was a couple
on there who the guy was like, Oh, I'm so nerdy.
I'm so into these like nerdy things like Marvel movies.
And then the woman is like, oh my god, Marvel movies.
That's so weird. I love them too. I'm screaming at
my TV like They are literally the most popular films
(19:57):
on planet Earth. They are like no our box office smashes.
They're like the only movie they make. Y'all, aren't like
quirky and special that you have this this incredibly popular
thing in common.
Speaker 3 (20:09):
Yeah, I feel that it's like a really good analogy
for what we're talking about here. You don't want to
go on a trip to a place that's like too
basic or too common. You know, it's like, what's the
point nobody's even gonna be impressed.
Speaker 1 (20:23):
Well, so this is this is anecdotal, so I don't
have any research about this, but I've actually almost noticed
this like negative social return thing happening. I don't know
if that's what you're referring to, where a travel destination
is deemed to be too basic, and then I'll see
people in like online travel communities turning up their nose
at it a little bit, saying I'm like, oh, you
went to Turks and Caicos. Everybody goes there. That's not exciting,
(20:45):
that's not cool. Like call me when you go someplace
really far along you have you seen this?
Speaker 3 (20:49):
Oh? Definitely, I feel that happens all the time. I
feel like Tuloom is kind of a good example of that,
because I feel it's often a little unfair to the place.
It's like, Yeah, you've created a really cool scene or
place or experience that a lot of people want to
come to, and now we're gonna hate on it because
you've been too successful.
Speaker 1 (21:10):
Yeah, I mean, and even I feel like taking a
step back. Any conversation about travel kind of has that undercurrent,
because we're talking about these places that don't exist for
us to explore us tourists, right. They're they're the They're
these incredibly dynamic, culturally rich places with with like a
rich history and a rich people like. The idea of
experiencing them only through this very narrow focus of is
(21:34):
it a good is it a good place for me
to come and hang out for a week is so narrow.
So the whole conversation feels a little bit icky of
defining some of these incredibly dynamic places through this very
narrow lens of are they good tourist destinations or not.
Speaker 2 (21:51):
Let's take a quick break. Enterer back, Okay, so I.
Speaker 1 (22:05):
Have to shout out a researcher whose work I stumbled
upon while I was put in together my thoughts for
this episode. Doctor Lauren A. Siegel, PhD. Lauren got her
PhD from University of Surrey and the UK with a
focus on behavioral performance and visitor impacts to destinations considered instagrammable.
Doctor Siegel published a paper with colleagues Ice Tessiata and
Caroline Scarles called cyber Physical Traveler Performances and Instagram Travel
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Photography as Ideal Impression Management that basically says that thanks
to the rise of platforms like Instagram, when we travel,
we are all about getting that perfect picture for social
media and less about sort of where we're at or
why we're going there, and that this can really be
connected back to the rise of Instagram. Stay right, a
refreshed code of choreographed movements as photographic practices has emerged
(22:53):
that did not exist before the popularization of Instagram. Less
than two percent of the photos analyzed solely feature the
la escape, reinforcing the shift to self presentation strategies as
the foremost importance.
Speaker 3 (23:06):
That's so interesting. I went and read that study, and
you know, the photos that they analyzed were the top
ones for each location recommended by the algorithm. So I
have to wonder, like how much of that is driven
by people wanting social return for themselves, making themselves the
subject of the photo, and how much was driven by
(23:26):
the algorithms rewarding photos that just center people. And so
I thought about that a little bit, and I was like, well, wait,
maybe those are one and the same thing, Like which
came first, the narcissism or the algorithm?
Speaker 1 (23:37):
Oh my god, I love that question, and truly like,
I mean this could be. I want to do a
whole series on this. But how much of what we
like and what we do is algorithms and how much
of it is actually us? I feel like in twenty
twenty four, the things are all collapsed and what I
like is just what my algorithm surfaces up to me
and vice versa. They're one and the same, and like,
trying to parse them at this point is impossis.
Speaker 3 (24:00):
I totally agree. I think, yeah, any attempt to say
that one is purely causally driving the other is just
missing the point.
Speaker 1 (24:08):
So doctor Siegel's work basically says that we're not really
trying to capture memories and we travel anymore. All we're
doing is what she calls self presentation. She writes there's
been a shift in personal photography such that photos are
used to construct one's idealized identity, which is contrary to
pass photographic practices as a form of memory documentation. As such,
(24:29):
users will look to ideals perpetuated by socio cultural norms
to internally assess the level of manipulation that their travel
images require. And this is apparently especially true on Instagram.
As Instagram is the most visual social networking site, it
lends itself to self presentation practices more so than other platforms.
Photographs are much more effective than tax for impression management,
(24:52):
as the myth of photographic truth lends credibility that is
often missing in texts. Instagram consists primarily of photographs and
therefore intensifies the importance of visual self presentation. However, despite
the potential for instant image publication, most Instagram images are
not mere point and shoot style photos and require the
equivalent of a photo shoot carried out in tourist settings.
(25:13):
So I could not read that bit and not think
of those fake tourist pictures, do you know what I'm
talking about? Those pictures where everybody goes to Turkey and
they have that same picture of like hot air balloons
behind them, right, Like, I cannot not think of these
basically faked tourist photos that have become almost like a
whole little industry. And I'm not hating on the people
(25:35):
who run these industries because oftentimes their locals and like
people's fascination with getting this perfect shot means money for
them and money in their pocket, as it should, but
it's so interesting. A great example is the Gates of
Heaven Temple in Pali, which is this beautiful temple that
gets thousands of visitors each year, and you can take
(25:57):
this iconic picture that looks like you're staying under the
temple on a body of water, and there's this mirror
image reflected, so it looks like, Wow, you're standing under
the temple right on this lake, and it's like a
mirror image that doubles what's being seen in this picture. However,
apparently there is not any water whatsoever at this temple,
(26:19):
and what it is is like a guy holding a
mirror beneath you. And so the image that I think
of night like like, if you've ever seen an image
of a temple from Bali, this is this is probably
like what you're thinking of. That image is partially thaked
because there is no water there This leads to some
pretty unhappy reviews from people who saw this picture, traveled there,
(26:40):
waited in line, and then did not see the like
expected lake or body of water. Here's one review from
trip Advisor. The title is Gate to Heaven A really
long queue. Do you like waiting in queues? Do you
enjoy waking up at three am? Or I love the
idea of trying to be creative with poses for a photo.
It's not technically real, per se. I got the perfect
(27:03):
place for you. This temple is located quite a distance
from most people's hotels, so for me, I left the
hotel at three fifteen am to get there by five
fifteen am. After a shuttle ride and getting a number,
paying the feet of take a photo, and then walking
up a steep hill, I was finally at the Gate
of Heaven, but in actuality, it's the gate to a
very long queue. I got out there by seven am,
(27:24):
despite being one of the first ones there at five
fifteen am. The employees here use a trick of the
camera to create the image that has a reflection. You
were given three or four poses to take the photo
of you at the gate. I felt it was kind
of corny and touristy. I guess if it's one's first
time in Bali, why not. But anyone who does it
more than once is crazy.
Speaker 2 (27:45):
Wow.
Speaker 3 (27:45):
I remember when like that story broke, you know, it
was like the story of how those images were this
temple was not what it seemed that mirrors were involved
in creating the sense of this great lake inside the temple,
when in fact it was just like guys holding mirrors.
Speaker 1 (28:07):
So you know how you were saying that it's like
classic social scientist behavior to identify a thing that everybody
can already see and sort of given a name, which,
by the way, you can say that because you are
a social scientist.
Speaker 3 (28:18):
Right, yeah, I say that with love. I mean people
are like, oh, it's just common sense. But it's important
to give things names because then we can, you know,
have a definition and we can all talk about it,
we can get sighted. It's important.
Speaker 1 (28:30):
So doctor Siegel calls that the whole temple thing a
micro destination, which is a specific place in a tourist
destination that really pops off on social media content, like
those blue domes in Santorini, Greece, like these places that
you would probably need like specific coordinates to recreate that
specific photo that has now kind of become iconic on
(28:52):
social media.
Speaker 3 (28:53):
Yeah, I remember experiencing that same thing at Arches National Park.
We hiked up a mountain in the sun for like
three hours. It was not the hardest hike, but definitely
not an easy hike. It was really windy at the top,
really sunny and hot. And so after all that, we're
up at the top of this very windy, barren, arid
(29:14):
mountain and unforgiving landscape, and what me and my friends
find up there a long queue of people waiting to
take photos in front of the historic arch. And I
definitely got in line, waited like thirty minutes to get
my photo. It was actually kind of a fun experience,
like laughing with the other people up there. But it
was definitely a micro destination like that one spot in
(29:38):
this vast park in an even vaster desert.
Speaker 1 (29:42):
I was on that ship with you many a hat
blew off. The conditions up there were a lot, I
remember it very clearly. But we did take that photo.
So I'm not even saying this like I'm a like
we're above it. Like what I think it's interesting about
doctor Segel's work is that it pulls out these things
that we all do, and so I don't think any
I'm certainly not above this. I don't think anybody is
(30:03):
above this. We took that the arch photo. We came
all that way, like we're not trying to take the photo.
And so in some ways, part of this is like, well,
do you blame anybody who like, this is your vacation.
You spent all this money, you want to get the
iconic photo, whether it's really a lake or a guy
holding a mirror or not.
Speaker 3 (30:19):
Yeah, absolutely, I got it. I'm proud of it. And
it was actually nice communal experience being up there with
all these other people who had hiked up there to
get it. And you know, standing in Q was not
terribly unpleasant because it was an incredibly beautiful spot. So
it's like, Okay, I just got to stand here and
(30:40):
look around at all these beautiful mountains and rock formations
for a while and laugh it up with like this
family that's standing here in front of me and these
like weird guys who were standing behind me.
Speaker 1 (30:51):
Well, speaking of photos, doctor Siegel's research even gets into
the nitty gritty of the way the particular ways that
people pose for social media travel photos. So you know
the shot and you close your eyes and picture you know,
is that what I'm talking about? The shot of a
woman walking in motion with like a flowy dress behind
her in front of a beautiful backdrop, or like the
(31:13):
photo of somebody sort of candidly not looking at the
camera with a pretty backdrop behind them.
Speaker 3 (31:18):
Hold on while I pull up like five hundred examples
of this on my phone right now.
Speaker 1 (31:23):
No, it turns out we are all just staging this
those pictures. We are all just staging all of those
poses all of the time. This is from doctor Siegel's research.
It's hilarious, but I feel very called out personally. Most
notable of these poses are the off camera gaze and
gesticulations of being in motion. Another prominent theme to emerge
(31:44):
from a content analysis was a facial expression, where in
the subject's visual gaze was focused somewhere out of the
camera's view. Only thirty five point three percent of the
photos and the content analysis featured subjects looking directly at
or into the camera lens. The research also did on
site ethnographic observations in Bali, which were consistent with the
findings of the content analysis. Many of those observed taurus
(32:08):
fix their gaze off camera while posing for photographs. Such
behavior indicates a clear motivation for the subject to appear
as if they were caught off guard or in the
midst of having an enjoyable experience, rather than staging a
curated photo. Photos in which the subject apparently lacks an
awareness that they're being photographed are known in popular media
as plannedids i e. Plan candids. Plandets can also be
(32:31):
considered a reinvention of URI's concept of the romantic gaze,
with the purpose of conveying an idealize lifestyle and the
nonchalance of an intended and performed ignorance to the presence
of a camera and or documentation of the experience. Oh
oh me, I wasn't even aware a photo was being
taken because I'm too busy living in the moment.
Speaker 3 (32:54):
You feel a little called out.
Speaker 1 (32:56):
Oh that is my classic, Like, oh my, I'm not
even look, oh, a picture is being taken. I wasn't aware.
I was just engrossed in this book I'm reading in
this beautiful park.
Speaker 3 (33:12):
Yeah, you know, it's so funny because so this is
a little bit of a non sequitur, but it does connect.
I've been spending time on Blue Sky recently, which I've
really been enjoying. And my feed includes a lot of
natural landscapes, nature photography and space photography, but also there's
(33:35):
just a lot of AI generated stuff that people are
like engagement farming there, and so there's this AI generated
images purporting to be photographs and being like, hey, this
is fake, this isn't real, Like you should at least
label it as AI generated. But talking about this now,
it really makes me think like, well, what is real? Right? Like,
(33:56):
is is a plan died real? Like, yeah, it's a photograph,
but you know, maybe so what if people are posing
like there they really are there just gazing off into
the distance, thinking about you know, the butler or whatever.
Speaker 1 (34:14):
Yeah, it reminds me of this thing I saw on
I think, I think on possibly on Blue Sky where
it's a picture of a man with his son and
it's just like beautiful sky and background and somebody asks
how did you get that sky effect in the photo?
And he said it was just a regular sky, Like
what do you mean? It's not the fact, just what's
the way the sky looked at me? We're outside. I
(34:35):
feel like every single time I talk about this on
the show, it sounds like I've just taken a massive
bong rip, but I swear I have not. When you
start breaking into like what is real, I mean you
know that line. Once you start writing, it all becomes fiction,
Like once it's on social media, it all becomes fake.
And so like the question of what is real, it's
almost like not the right question to be asking, because
(34:56):
it's like Baudriard's concept of hyperreality, Like it's even what
you see on Instagram in some ways becomes even more
real than what would be real otherwise that like you
couldn't tell me that temple doesn't have a lake at it,
even though that lake is fake, because I've seen that
lake on Instagram so many times.
Speaker 3 (35:14):
Yes, that's a good point, and I guess you know
now that I think about it. At no point in
any of doctor Siegel's research does she use the word
reeal that I noticed. Right, she's just talking about the
different behaviors that people do, and she's also talking about
their motivations for doing it. Real isn't really even part
(35:38):
of the analysis.
Speaker 1 (35:39):
Yeah, I don't think that's even what she's interested in
in in like grappling with and it almost kind of
seems like an afterthought of like, well, what is real?
Like what what does reel mean in this context? And
I know a lot of this stuff can be funny,
but it's also pretty serious. You know. The way that
social media intersects with travel can lead to things over tourism,
(36:01):
which can be a problem if a place that doesn't
have the infrastructure to handle a certain level of tourism.
National Geographic notes that eighty percent of travelers visited just
ten percent of the world's destination. So like that can
have a really big impact, and as doctor Siegel puts it,
it can create a cycle that contributes to more self
indulgent travel. It could also wreak ecological damage and exacerbate
(36:21):
income disparities. And so it's kind of like navel gayzy
and interesting to think about this intersection of social media
and travel behavior. But it also really has, you know,
talk about what's real what's not. It has very real
irl offline impacts for these destinations as well, and some
big tourist destinations are actually working to combat it. So BALI,
(36:43):
which I know we've talked about quite a bit during
this episode, released new guidelines for visitors in June twenty
twenty three that includes rules about proper behavior and sacred temples,
rules about how you should behave on the island and
behave with locals, and rules around respecting the natural environment.
Tourists now need a license to rent motorbikes and may
not set foot on any mountain or volcano in Bali
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due to their sacred nature. Travelers also have to stay
and registered hotels and villas, which obviously will impact things
like Arabian bees, and Bali has introduced a Tourist Task
Force to enforce these restrictions through raids and investigations if necessary.
This is all from a piece for CNN dot Com
that doctor Siegal wrote. Doctor Siegel also points out that
other destinations have also taken similar steps. Places like Hawaii, Iceland,
(37:29):
New Zealand, Costa Rica and others have all adopted pledgets
for visitors to abide by local laws and customs. And
there's also these big campaigns like Switzerland's No Drama campaign,
Finland's be More Like a Finn campaign, the Netherlands How
to Amsterdam campaign, which I think was all about like
British Party lads coming and probably like indulging too much
(37:52):
in the t shops etc. And like creating a problem.
In Austria, they have the sea Vienna not hashtag Vienna campaign,
which really asks for folks to really have a more
mindful approach to their tourism when they're in Vienna. And
in a study called does social Media help or hurt
(38:12):
Tourist Destinations? A qualitative case study, doctor Siegel actually looked
at the tourist board of Vienna with their kind of
anti hashtag marketing campaign urged that encouraging visitors to go
offline mult traveling in the city, and she found that
apparently it's been like pretty well received. To make you
went to Vienna, was it pre hashtag or post hashtag?
Speaker 3 (38:33):
Oh man, I was in Vienna pre iPhone, so it
was definitely pre hashtag. But I loved it. It was
just the coolest, most charming place. I won't get into
the whole thing of it, but what really struck me
about Vienna was that it was both like old and
(38:56):
classical and beautiful, but also like a vibrant, exciting city
where like people lived and worked and loved and played
and all the things. I just had the best time there.
I was so impressed, And so I don't know what
hashtag Vienna is but the actual city that I got
(39:17):
to experience back in those pre iPhone days no further
date specification provided was incredible. And so people if people
were going there pursuing hashtag Vienna, whatever that might have been,
I do have to wonder if they were missing out
on some of the more subtle beauty that was there
to be had well.
Speaker 1 (39:38):
So that's exactly what doctor siegeal found that the staff
of the tourist board in Vienna, who created this kind
of anti hashtag campaign, explained that all these tourists would
come to Vienna and that their image of Vienna was
this mis quote metropolis without stress, and yet the tourism
board felt that visitors to their city were increasingly just
(39:58):
missing out on these very experiences because they were too
busy on their dang phones, as my mom would say.
So this seems like a pretty important observation relevant to
all these other Instagram driven behaviors that we've already talked
about that focus on getting this perfect picture for other
people and having that stand in the way of actually
being present and enjoying oneself. And that's exactly what I
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think that the Vienna Tourism board, it sounds like was
trying to combat and y'all. If there is one thing
I have learned over the last couple of months, it
is that life is too dang short to live it
for validation or people on your phone or other outside people.
You shouldn't be living it for you. So if you're
doing any travel over the holiday season, how to keep
that online?
Speaker 3 (40:40):
What a nice sentiment, Bridget.
Speaker 1 (40:42):
Thanks so much, Mike, and thanks for listening. I will
see all on the internet. Got a story about an
interesting thing in tech. I just want to say hi.
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